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Body Image Links of Many Flavors

Laurie and Debbie say:

When we started this blog (wow, three years ago!), we wanted it to be almost always about body image, but interpreted as widely as possible. The links that have come in from readers and from our reading over the last ten days or so are an excellent sampling if what we meant by that.

Lizzie sent us this link to an obituary for Beryl Cook, a painter whose delightful work with fat images we hadn’t seen.

Beryl Cox painting

Her paintings, which fetch up to £40,000, document familiar social situations like girls on a hen night, in a disco or shopping, men in the pub, at a strip club or at the market.

She is credited with capturing ‘moments of social history, portrayed with a playful streak of naughtiness.

From there, it’s a pathetic jump to this story:

In this article about magazines that appeal to pre-teen girls, Toni Round, managing director of the youth and children’s magazine division at BBC Worldwide says, among other damning things:

“Around this age there’s very little that’s of interest to both boys and girls.” She doesn’t think that magazines drive this gender division – “It’s more deeply ingrained than that” – and believes the pre-teen magazines are just giving readers what they want. “There is a lot of pink,” she says. “But they respond to that. Girls do like these things.”

Then there is this absolutely superb keynote speech which Eli Clare gave at the Trans Health Conference in Philadelphia at the end of last month. It really is too good to excerpt, but here’s one taste:

I come to this gathering thinking about shame—that chasm of loathing lodged in our bodies, a seemingly impenetrable fog, an unspeakable and unspoken fist. Shame all too often becomes our home. … This afternoon I want to strike at the center, to talk directly about the raw, overwhelming mess that shame is: how it wakes us up in the morning, puts us to bed at night, whispers to us as we’re having sex, sitting in job interviews, pulling on our clothes to go out. Shame visits us in the bedroom and at the beach, in the medical exam room and at the therapist’s office. Shame lives in the mirror and the camera, and its impact is huge, ranging from low self esteem to addiction, from infrequent health care to suicide. This afternoon I want to talk about the ways in which shame inhabits our bodies and how we can resist that habitation.

Clare, who identifies as both genderqueer and disabled goes on to discuss the intersection between disability and trans, his passionate belief that nothing about him should be called a defect, and much, much more.

The scientists have also been active, this time demonstrating (with worms) “that the nerve messenger acts through independent channels to control whether you eat versus what to do with those calories once you’ve eaten them.” Or, in other words, how much a worm eats is not the only factor in how fat it gets. Good back-up data for what we already knew.

Here’s a very familiar story, more often told about women, but this time about a man:

For the last nine years, Christian Boeving has been a model for over-the-counter dietary supplements in Iovate’s MuscleTech division. Now the company is refusing to renew his contract after Boeving admitted on camera that his insanely toned body is not just the result of powders and potions–it might also have something to do with the steroids he’s been injecting since the age of sixteen.

The same site also posted this excellent interview with a fat female model who is taking on the whole fashion industry.

If people are only exposed to imagery of fat people as jokes in movies, TV, etc., then that limits our perception to degradation. So what then is the solution? Not to take the opportunity to proudly embrace my curves in a global venue? One must take advantage of these rare opportunities when presented by people who are willing to take the risk on you.

And let’s close with woofers, who takes fabulous self-portraits

woofers looking in mirror

There’s also fine text about masculinity and fatness at the link.

Links from Lizzie, Lynn Kendall, betsy, and more. Thanks for sending them, and please keep them coming.

WisCon Troll Attacks: A First-Person Experience

Cynthia Gonsalves says:

Many of you out there have heard about the systematic trollage of one of my favorite science fiction and fantasy conventions, WisCon, over this past weekend. [Information is easily available on the net, but summaries and links are here, {Eamong other places.] One young woman managed in one fell and pestilent swoop to hit all the spaces for a blanket win of Asshole Bingo. The troll thread she started on SomethingAwful.com was full of attacks on fat people, transpeople, people with disabilities, women, etc. You get the picture, don’t you?

[EDITED to update link, which now goes to an extensive link roundlup by Malcolm Gin. It previously pointed to an earlier and far less extensive roundup.]

I was moderating a panel on self-care strategies for activists, which got caught up in the trollage; one of my co-panelists was singled out for abuse as a transperson, and the other co-panelist had her chronic disease [fibromyalgia] labeled “imaginary.” Me, I just was just another fat woman offending the troll’s sensibilities by being Openly Fat in Public. The substance of our panel seems to have been for her tastes; she was more offended by who the people in the front of the room were. And of course, if any of you had the misfortune to read the original posts (which have now been taken down), the troll got me and the other woman panelist confused. Sloppy, sloppy troll.

When I found out about all this crap last Sunday night, my initial desire was to smash her like a bug with my fat self; however, I got over that quickly. Losing my shit wasn’t going to be effective, and I needed my friends around me not to lose their shit either. My wrath got hot again when I heard that children of some of my friends and acquaintances had gotten targeted, but seeing effective group action beginning to take place helped me cool off again.

When I found out that this person had been identified by tracking the slime trail she’d left on the Internet (when doing detective work like this, please make sure you’ve got the right person; why direct wrath on the innocent namesakes?), I knew the Threefold Rule [whatever you put out in the universe will come back to you three times as strong] was kicking in. The technopagan part of me was nodding (she who lives by the trollage will die by the trollage). I have no problem with people having brought the troll’s behavior to the attention of the dean of students at her university, but I firmly disapprove of making physical threats against her.

I found out later that she is a troubled person struggling with an eating disorder, and that elicits some compassion for her in me, but not enough to give her a free pass on this one. Actions have consequences. What makes me particularly sad is that as I’ve begun on a size acceptance path, I’ve found some tremendous writing about struggling with and recovering from eating disorders out in the fat blogosphere that the original poster rejects so violently. She’s managed to piss off and alienate people who could have been strong supporters in her path to healing.

Part of me is somewhat surprised that the WisCon community hasn’t had to deal with this kind of attack sooner, because we collectively give the finger to the sexist, racist, homophobic, transphobic trolls’ sense of what is right and proper in the universe. I’m hoping that we can work on protection strategies against the inevitable attacks; we can’t lock things down hard without killing the vitality of the community. There are always going to be People Being Wrong on the Internet, and directing their wrongheaded nastiness at us.